Preparing your child for secondary school
Starting secondary school can be intimidating with older children looking like giants and the fear of not making friends. There are ten ways you can help your child get ready: -
1. Prepare for the first day of school
Make a list of everything your child will need on their first day - from PE kit to protractors - secondary schools often expect pupils to bring their own stationery.
Make sure their uniform is laid out the night before with their packed bag and PE kit if needed.
2. Talk about new school nerves
We all get nervous when we start something new so talk to your child about their worries and anything concerning them.
3. Get into a routine during the school holidays
Perhaps a week or few days before school starts, encourage your child to manage their time and be responsible for getting themselves ready for school. It will help chaotic early mornings feel a little less hectic.
4. Get them involved in clubs and activities
Joining in with sports and other activities are a great way of making friends and building confidence.
5. Familiarise them with their journey to school, especially if this is via public transport
Your child may have a friend from their primary school they can travel with, but they may also make friends with other pupils catching the same bus as them. Getting them used to catching the bus will help build confidence.
6. Consider whether it's time for a mobile phone
The start of secondary school may be a good time to give your child a mobile phone. It's a great way for you to keep in touch with them, especially if they are making their own way to school.
There are ways you can limit the amount of screen time your child uses and also ensure they stay safe.
7. Give them a mature outlook
11 year olds can feel daunted at the jump from primary to secondary school. Help by building their knowledge of everyday topics like spending money, eating healthy and paying bills.
8. Help them to manage their timetable
Your child will have a packed activity schedule and new responsibilities at secondary school so help them make a timetable, showing their lesson plan, when homework is due etc. It will help your child feel on top of things.
9. Encourage your child to make new friends
Your child may go to secondary school with some of their old friends or start somewhere completely new. Being confident can help your child to make new friends, but talk to them if something is bothering them.
10. Keep an eye on their academic performance
There is a big step up in learning from primary to secondary school which can be overwhelming with an increase in expectations and complexity. Talk to your child if they show any sign that they are struggling and speak to their teacher who are there to help them perform to the best of their abilities.